Banke mi owon, today you should have been 40.We could have the chance to fete you and shown you again how dear you are to us. You would have filled our home with friends, laughter and music in your inimical way. Today we would have looked to the future together. I remember your 21st birthday party. I remember your elegant white "suit" and delicate jewelry. As always you were the life of your own party – you did always create your events in your own image - quiet, warm, simple, about friends, and family. You were always a beautiful and happy person to be around. I miss you my love and rare gem. How I wish I could see your face and hear your laughter again, especially today at 40. Similoluwa misses you. Anike misses you. Everyday. It’s a birthday dear. It’s hardly a happy one.